Thursday, January 24, 2008

taking advantage of

We come across people of various kinds. As time passes by, one tends to get acquainted with them, coming to terms as friends. I think, there are moments when one has to take advantage of the other. According to me, it strengthens the relationship. It is also natural for us to hesitate. As one wouldn't know anything about the response. Whether the other person minds it, or wishes that she/he could have made the move.

I've always thought that it is fine to take advantage of another person. In goodwill. Of course, it will be difficult to predict a response. If not, the mind is thrown into a quandary, and we tend to brood over it. There are times when people have done the same, with goodness. And i'm glad that the ice is broken.

At the same time, it's also okay to ask for help from somebody whom we scarcely know. Being reticent, it's not cheerful enough. Than to feel awkward about it for some time to follow, and to hear the other person say 'Oh! i could have helped you, if i had known about it!' There are times when we simply should be straight with our views or questions. It does help sort things out.

2 comments:

Kadalabal said...

MAKE USE OF THE STRENGTHS OF FRIEND/ANYONE WHOM U KNOW. ALWAYS PICK THE GOOD POINTS AND DONT TAKE LEAF IF SOMETHING IS NOT GOOD.
FRIENDSHIP IS ONE GREAT THING AND IT HAS NO BOUNDS WE CAN LEARN AND WE CAN SHARE WE CAN HELP WE CAN MIX WHAT NOT NO BOUNDS OR LIMITS FOR THIS ENJOY
HAVE GREAT WEEK END. WEEK END TRIP BENGALOORIGA?

mouna said...

pranesh sir,
thanks for supporting my views. i had begun to loose trust in them.

i've been in bengalooru for the last two weeks, after my 1st sem exams. i'll be beginning my 2nd sem on monday, though.

happy republic day!! :)