The view in which we see others at times; when things are not going right with us, is so wrong. We tend to reason it out so cynically that i'm ashamed of it myself. I tell this to myself some umpteen number of times, but when i'm really worried, i tend to see a stranger whom i wouldn't have seen it before that moment and start a critical analysis like it's the most important thing.
People tend to influence us in the weirdest of fashions, unknowingly at that. And it is only right for us to choose the 'influencing' bit. Hope we are clear about it. I'm trying hard to get myself out of this series of baseless thoughts.